| T O P I C R E V I E W |
| Bossc@ |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:20:11
Well, the big day came and went. Myself and wife were absolutely petrified and its been a very stressful time leading up to it. The judge couldn't have been better. We were sat for about an hour before seeing him but when we went in, he was going over our paperwork. He simply asked if we'd sought advice and we said yes - from the CAB, National Debtline, and IVA Consultant and the Official Receivers Enquiry line. He then asked if we understood the consequences as we were home owners. Again, we said yes and that we were handing the property back to the motgage company. He then said that he would sign our bankruptcy petition and we could go back to see the registrar. All in all, we were in there about 90 seconds.
Just waiting now to here from the official receiver. The sense of relief after coming out was immense for both of us. Its completely our fault, living beyond our means but not lavishly in any way, shape or form. Circumstances changed and we ended up borrowing from Peter to pay Paul, so to speak.
It truly does feel like a new day and life for us both. |
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| movin on |
Posted - 24 January 2009 : 17:41:07
Bossc@
Just wanted to say welcome to the debt free road....The OR will go through your soa page by page, line by line, so you will no doubt know what is coming next.
Im sure the or knows about your situation will try and be tactful with your wife, and glad she will have support there for her. Take care of each other you and your family are what needs to come first.
Good luck for Thursday, im sure it will be fine.
Jenny
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Onwards and Upwards is the way im going :-0)
From "Moneyworries" to "Movin On" in 3 months is fantastic :-))
xx |
| Bossc@ |
Posted - 24 January 2009 : 12:46:50
Thanks all for the kind words
Got a call yesterday from the OR to schedule a telephone interview on Thursday. My wife is 1 til 2 and I'm 2 til 3. I'll be at work at the time but can go into a private office.
Dont really know what to expect despite reading up on here - seems to be a lot of mixed interviews. Good and bad. The lady sounded ok but rang me as my wife suffers from various problems. I'm presuming its because her doctor and counsellor gave us a letter to include into our petetion outlining the problems she suffers from (anxiety, depression, stress, eating disorders including a past history of bulimia and laxative abuse as well as OCD). Shes in bits and convinced we're going to prison and is already getting worked up over the interview. A friend is going to come around and sit with her.
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| JulianDonnelly |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:56:27
Absolutely!
Julian Donnelly
Spokesperson for www.Bankruptcyhelp.org.uk
Don't forget the helpline on 0800 078 9367 |
| Needafriend |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:54:33
Hi Bossc
Congrats and welcome to our club.
This is the start of your new debt free life, enjoy it 
LOL
Jo
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25 Weeks down
 Yippeee!
27 to go
 Im getting there!
I am always here for you, via posting, email or if you want a one to one chat that can be arranged. I cant give legal advice as i am not trained but i can give you general info and also the personal touch from my experience only.
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| JulianDonnelly |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:48:19
Indeed :)
Julian Donnelly
Spokesperson for www.Bankruptcyhelp.org.uk
Don't forget the helpline on 0800 078 9367 |
| John |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:46:27
Hi
I remember the feeling of relief when exiting the court very well. The first major hurdle is over.
Well done.
www.Bankruptcyhelp.org.uk
0800 078 9367 |
| JulianDonnelly |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:43:38
As someone who's been through it, take it from me that you should view this as a fantastic opportunity to start your life over with the slate wiped clean. Best of luck!
Julian Donnelly
Spokesperson for www.Bankruptcyhelp.org.uk
Don't forget the helpline on 0800 078 9367 |
| Bossc@ |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:42:40
Thanks Julian
As long as my wife, 4 year old and 18 month old are together, then I'm happy. Things are less tense at home already and we're looking forward to 'starting from scratch' together - financially as well as with each other.
The posts and experiences of others on here have been a great emotional support, in what is, a very scary time. |
| JulianDonnelly |
Posted - 23 January 2009 : 12:21:58
Congratulations and welcome to the start of your new debt-free life!
Julian Donnelly
Spokesperson for www.Bankruptcyhelp.org.uk
Don't forget the helpline on 0800 078 9367 |
